Sex, Is it the enlightment to a swell relationship?

Most people wait a few weeks before they get into each others pants, But what if u do it on the first date?
what if u discover u have a bad play mate on the first date!?
I mean would tick you off? or would you try and live with it?

Ok, the fact is my friend has a lot of sex, i mean so do i, but she always tends to beat me.
Anyway we love sharing sex tips with each other. and sometimes we just agree on the same thing here or something there.
Now, I think that bad is sex is BAD. I mean i wouldn't to be having bad sex all the time. Bad sex sometimes is ok but imagine living with bad sex for 2 or 3 years?

Men discover sex at a very tender age normally and women tend to venture into the world of sex much later in life, so normally it would be the male figure who initiates the first move. Some girls have problems adapting to this new activity! and when they've fully ventured they tend to find fault in the guys, like "Your not fast enuf" or "you should try Viagra" or "we should try different positions"/ End of the day the girl takes the lead and the man is Ashamed of himself and becomes inferior. He will always have this thought in his head that he's never that good. And then what happens?

Well from the women's perspective its not always like that, I find that most women love to be driven to the place they want to be, some like it rough, some like it slow, some like it fast, some like it Big!?
So neither parties are ever happy if they don't have what the want?
Are men all living in fantasies ?
Are women living in dreamy orgasms?

I think its sorta ridiculous to judge a relationship based on the SEX!
But the world is sorta turning into a red light district anyway so, i guess we're all just a bunch of idiosyncratic whores.

peace be with you!